Does anybody think that online dating is desperate.?

I personally don't like online dating but I know someone who has been dating online for 3 years. He finally met someone who he wants to marry. Is three years of online dating a little desperate? Is that something to be proud of marrying someone from the internet? What do you think.

Does anybody think that online dating is desperate.?
Yes, it is sick. Most of it is just sex between two strangers. The only people I know that are on the internet dating are either married or looking for sex in exchange for a dinner in a restaurant. Stick to dating in your own city. You really don't know what you are getting on the internet. People lie about their jobs, age, income, if they are married or not, number of kids, financial situation, and about everything including if they have been in prison. Date in your city. Meet his or her friends and family and then you get a better idea of what you are getting.
Reply:yeah its desperate and sick. most people arent honest on the internet
Reply:If he and she are happy...and getting married...that is a good thing...right?





...I think it is just right now...dating isn't easy...so the internet gives some people a way to meet more people....





...and if they can find someone that way....good for them...
Reply:Think of it this way, Would you rather me a sad lonely man that has no family? or have a wife which you found on the internet and have kids and enjoy the rest of your life?





You might just find true love, What's the difference between people on online dating to people in a pub or club? Nothing, So jsut get on with it. Doesn't matter what anybody else thinks does it. if it does, Then your not ready to be married.





Good luck.
Reply:You have to find ur true love anyway you can. There's nothing wrong with online dating. As long as you've seen and talked to the person at least once
Reply:it's like whatever, i mean i have friend that met their spouse at a bar, can you saw that's better that saying that you met her on line?
Reply:no. it doesnt matter how u meet someone. cause u could meet the same person somewhere else and it would still be the same person.
Reply:Well I think it's a way to weed out ppl. and without having to go out all the time. Now I think it's crazy that they charge people to do it. But I guess if you will not pay then you not worth the time.


I also feel to marry someone online is kinda nutty, not desperate. I think the best way to meet a person to marry is through friends. BUT THAT"S ME!
Reply:i think it's desperate, personally.


love is something that you shouldn't search for. it comes along by itself and just happens.


not behind a computer screen.
Reply:I do.
Reply:I don't think there is anything wrong with meeting people online...but dating online and never meeting is desperate, makes you think what people are trying to hide. I've seen people have "relationships" online but never meet...really doesn't make sense to me.
Reply:I think it seems a little desperate, meeting someone online and especially marrying them afterwards. It's better to meet someone in the real world and not behind a screen but to each his own.
Reply:not everyone likes the bars or church to find others
Reply:Well i know a guy over the internet and he's crazy bout me and seems to be the right one. but lol, if at all in the future we get together n ppl ask me "how did u two meet??" and i'd hav 2 say "on the internet" ....eww.. .no ways... and yes it's desperate n idiotic
Reply:yes it has despo writin all over !


but tht frnd of urz really likes the person they met ....sure they shud get married
Reply:I mean love is love. Weather its long distance, internet, or online. If that person makes him/her happy. It is just like the age thing, my boyfriend knows some one whoes father is like 42 years old. His girlfriend is 19 or 20, but hell if they are happy, by all means GO FOR IT! Good luck. I hope I helped.
Reply:I think it's just a vehicle to meet people and I don't think less of anyone who's ever tried it. Some people aren't very social or they're very busy with their careers and don't have a way to meet eligible singles.
Reply:Yes i kinda do and kinda stupid. why else would you want to do online dating . because you want a relationship but you know it wont last cause they've never seen you. SO they will normally be expecting prince charming or a beautiful princess then when the actually see Wat you look like there like omg i don't like you. see I've never done it cause one I'm taken and to i HAVE A LIFE! ha ha there you go