Is online dating better than dating in Real Life?

Well I've been online dating and I don't know if I should if I should try dating in Real Life. Can you help me please?

Is online dating better than dating in Real Life?
no Real life is way better! you actually get to see the person and can develop feelings. it's a great fealint.
Reply:Dating in real life is better than online dating. But I think doing both is also fair enough.


By dating real life, you could tend to see n touch the other person. Better than looking on the screen.


Don't tell me your going to have a wedding online...?
Reply:I really believe that dating in real life is actually so much better. cuz when you see the person taht you love its' just such a great feelign to know that their there for you and i guess it all depends on the person but trust me. the real thing is what i think it better, but it's not like online isnt' actually real dating. sometiems that might be better for teh person, but if you ahve the confidence i would try dating in person.
Reply:If you're 16 or older, it's time to join the real people face-to-face dating scene!
Reply:real life. theres more to a relationship than just talking online, the physical aspect of it can be very nice!
Reply:why not





both have their own importance





i always enjoyed online dating





but selection of source and person is important
Reply:Where else could two 30 stone men each believe they are having an affair with a supermodel??
Reply:Stay online dating, it's safer for you.


Don't you see the news or read the papers.


Don't be naive and know the the real world is full of evil, just waiting for someone new.


Never see some one you met online alone.


It's best to date people you meet during daily life routings.


Never give too much information about where you live or study or hang out.


Maybe a 3-D annimated virtual dating cafe may make online dating more fun, but dating some one you like, and that persons likes you too, is much much better.


Be careful %26amp; wise......
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Reply:Real life and online are way diffrent.... You actually get to hold the person, kiss them, walk with them ect! you should consider real dating
Reply:Are u nut?%26gt;
Reply:Online dating can be VERY dangerous. You never know who the person is on the other end...You should DEFINITELY start dating in real life/person to person. You have so many positive things without online dating : cuddling, kissing, possibly sex, seeing each other, going out for dinner!!! c'mon how can you pass that up?





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Reply:Online dating - it could be ANYONE. You don't know if they really are who they say they are, or if that picture of the cute guy they sent is ACTUALLY of them. You can't flirt properly, you can't watch their body language. There's no chance of a goodnight kiss.





Real dating - that person you're talking to is a real person. He can buy you a drink, he can laugh at your jokes. You can have dinner together and talk. You can look in each other's eyes. You might get a kiss at the end of the night.





One is real, human communication. The other is not. It's up to you.
Reply:I think real life dating is better.


You actually get to see and meet the person.


You can talk to them, and really get to know their personality, but online dating, not really...
Reply:Hey... I kno you dont kno who dis is... just saw your add somewhere online and ofcz you dont got your pic on.. but it sounded so good I think m in love with you... you wanna go out.....?





Hw the hell you ans dat... yeah.. online babe... no doubt!!





omg she say she will date me online... Im so happy!!!





Dats some bullsh**





Go out and have fun....
Reply:real life dating so soooo much better... you get to see wat hes really like when he can make it all up over the internet. also, in person you can smooch xoxo lol
Reply:Is this a joke??? Come on, this is a joke, right?
Reply:NUMBER 1 They have no connections to you


NUMBER 2 You need to be upfront and honest before you go on a date that you are NOT interested in a sexual relationship (this will weed out most of the weirdos)


NUMBER 3 ALWAYS meet in a public place


NUMBER 4 NEVER get in the car with the guy on a second date/meeting


NUMBER 5 Find out what his HOME phone number is (if he says he doesn't have one, or uses his cell phone only, this is a red flag)


NUMBER 6 NEVER, NEVER go to his apartment until you have known him for at least 2-3 months and you have had at least 20 meetings with him. Any fewer than this, and you have no idea what his temperment is like or if he has extreme mood swings (dr Jeckyl and mr Hyde behavior)


NUMBER 7 Be sure, when you do have his HOME phone number that his NAME and address match up to that phone number (go to a "reverse phone number lookup" website on the internet to verify name and address)


NUMBER 8 BE very WARY of someone who does not have a real physical address and seems to travel ALOT. Someone who has 3 address in different states is a very big RED flag sign...


NUMBER 9 If you have ANY, ANY doubts about the guy you are speaking with or meeting, or a nagging "I'm unsure if I like this guy" ~ RUN......... LISTEN TO YOUR HEART.... You don't need to give them an excuse, just tell them you had to go to an emergency or something... But for god's sake, don't be bullied into something you're not interested in doing.


NUMBER 10 Many of the guys who are on the online website are there for a reason... Many cannot have normal, healthy relationships, so they go there hoping to get lucky.





Above all, you are too good for online personals. I have done just what you have, and I was upfront that sex was not an option... that "THIS MUST WAIT" I mean, wait until marriage (OR whatever excuse you want to use) and that you are not into ONE night stands.. PLEASE, do not have sex with anyone that you have just met no matter how well they sweet talk you or they seem okay. Chances are, they will say that they respect your decision, but like to cuddle, backrubs whatever that can lead to sex.. Please reserve overly friendly physical contact until you can verify all above 10 rules.


Source(s):





Society thinks and teaches us through TV, etc... that casual sex is ok... IT IS NOT OK.. Let them know right away how you feel about this so it does not lead to something you do not want.





BEEN THERE DONE THAT... But, lucky me, did not sleep with them. Found out later they were jerks and got jerked around. Don't want to spend the rest of my life with someone like that!!!





Hope you make the RIGHT decision. ~
Reply:I have been doing LOTS of research online about this recently. And I found out that studies prove that relationships that start out online have a better success rate than those that start in "real life". Mostly because you get to really KNOW the other person before you have the physical attraction. When you finally do meet them face to face, there is a real understanding of how they think and feel, which is a good foundation for a future together.
Reply:How do you online date? Just chat? That's lame. I hope you are just kidding.
Reply:I am not sure what you are talking about here. Are you talking about having a date in real life with someone you found on line or does your on line dating have nothing to do with some guy you are going to date in real life?





If you are planning on going out in real life with an on line Romeo you need to be aware that you have no earthly idea what kind of person your Romeo is or what his background is. What he has told you may be all true, may be all lies or somewhere in between. If you are going to meet him, don't give him your home phone # and don't ask him to come to your home. Meet him in a public place and tell him goodbye in a public place for the first few dates until you can verify a few things. Don't carry your credit cards with you and don't carry much cash or your ATM card.


Romeo may be a nice guy who is on the up and up. I am not saying he isn't. I am saying that for every one that is OK there are nine who are not.
Reply:i think you should try to date in real life, sometimes it could be much more fun!!!!!!


enjoy life!!!
Reply:You should incorporate both into your routine.





Real life dating:





pros-know person's looks


chemistry established


immediate interaction





cons-don't have alot of background about interests


waste of time/money if they are jerks


more likely to find person looking for "booty call"








Online dating:





pros-lots of background


no time lost


security of relative anonymity





cons-people tend to never get to "meeting" part


use the background info to write people off that may have fit


background info may be bogus





Neither one has proven effective for me but....use both
Reply:o no
Reply:well the thing about online dating is you can't know if the person you're talking to is really that age, etc. so if you agree to meet, be ware that you might be meeting a pedifile or something.





and yeah you offered no details at all so adding more might help just a *tiny* bit.
Reply:Well, this is a tricky question as i am not you and they both have challenges. But I have tried both and found that "real" dating was far better than the online version. Online was nice to b/c i was able to see and read a quick stat sheet on them, but they were all liars!





Real had liars as well, but at least i didnt spend money on viewing there AD! Overall, i just felt more comfortable with the "Real" version and I think that is the question you have to ask yourself.