Is it normal to be arguing or having serious disagreements with someone that you're online dating with. Have any of you ever online dated with someone and they got jealous that you were chatting with other guys or girls even though you hadn't meet in person yet.
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i dated somebody online once...we chatted and emailed each other for about 6 months until it got serious...he was thousands of miles away but it was pretty serious enough...it became calls and finally, after about a year we met for the first time...it was great...we ended up seeing each other for 3 years...when we were still online, disagreements would come up...and yeah, we argued and cooled off and all that stuff that physical relationships have...maybe because we considered ourselves really together and not just "online dating" as it is...so the answer really is with you dude...are you serious enough woth this person to feel reality sinking in when these jealousful situations arise?..think about it!...:)
Reply:No I haven't but I wouldn't put up with that behaviour from anybody online or in person.
Reply:No man it's not normal. Alarms should be sounding in your head that the person you're talking to has some serious issues. If you think it's bad now, imagine what it will be like down the road when you want to hang with some women from work or school--the jealously will go through the ROOF!
Cut ties now man!
Reply:When I was like 17 I "dated" a guy online. The problem with online dating is that your never really dating them. They are always some where else doing whatever they want. If you are dating someone online, and they are getting jealous about you simply chatting with someone, then the chance of it ever working out in person is low. Imagine meeting them and dating them in person, they will be super controlling and jealous. GET OUT NOW hehe
Reply:no but if it happened i'd block that one!
Reply:No but once you get together it changes things!
Reply:I met my gf online and we clicked straight away, and everything was really great most of the time but we did have arguments sometimes, however none of them were jealousy related. I'd say it is normal to have arguments in any close relationship, online or in real life, as long as its not arguing all the time. Me and my gf met up in real life 4 months after we met online and we've been together for 4 years now :)
I have online friends who've been in long online relationships without ever meeting the other person in real life, and they did have massive arguments, often based on jealousy... just depends on a person i think. If it's a person with previous online dating experience they are much more likely to get angry with you for chatting to other people online a lot, because after all as they see it chatting a lot to them is what makes them more special to you than any other person, but if you chat a lot to someone else the person you're 'with' may not feel as special anymore, or fear to lose you.
If you like this guy/girl just tell them that you simply like to chat, and that there is no danger of you leaving, that should comfort them hopefully :)
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