Online dating , and relationships ..?

Ok , I have met this guy online in a dating forum he is in Iraq right now. He SEEMS so nice and sweet and perfect. And knows how to say all the right things. He calls me everyday from Iraq sometimes two times a day. plus emails .. in those e-mails I am reffered to as Baby , sweetheart, princess. very interested he seems.





Well I wanted to know if this guy was for real as you can't trust folks to much these days.espcially online. if you all know what I mean , if it is to good to be true more than likely it is . anyways i took down my profile and placed another profile as another girl and contacted him Via the personals . he wrote her back with darn near identical emails that he started with me. And seems really interested in HER . I.e. my profile that I placed of another girl .


I know it is wrong to be devious , like that . but now that he is writting her. and trying hard to make contact with the girl. I.E. my fake profile.


Should I confront him or leave it alone

Online dating , and relationships ..?
Forget it, he is a player. Just break off contact with him.
Reply:Just walk away and chalk it up to a "lesson learned" about Internet dating.
Reply:He may or may not be in Iraq. He may very well be just a strange man. If he is flirting with so many different girls why would you want to continue to talk to him. I would just say bye. If he is over there and doing this whats to say he is not just lonely and looking for attention. Don't go getting your feelings hurt for someone you know almost nothing about. He may be a little con-artist.
Reply:Yes here's the deal on soldiers and military in general...they are men, they are lonely and mail from girls is welcomed. But they do pretend to be interested...just because they want the letters to keep coming.





Time to dump him.
Reply:I dont think I could ever trust a man I met online. Get rid of him and go out and meet a real man face to face.
Reply:delete his contact info... don't take his calls... he's a loser