Online Dating Its Useless.?

I think online dating is a very unwise and unsavoury experience. My sister and her friends use it regularlr to find men and have always ended up with some idiot who is completely wrong for them and they end up getting used all the time. Internet dating sites are full of sick pervs and i would advise anyone thinking of using to use your better judgement and find a girlfiend or boyfirend the right way but chance rather than by searching a profile.





your thoughts?

Online Dating Its Useless.?
Awww - aint that cute (Bog brother!!!)





Hey, if people are daft enough to actually meet someone from the internet, then it's up to them.
Reply:Nice observation from personal experience. It's always nice to look in the aquarium and tell the fish that they're not swimming right.
Reply:Like any kind of dating it can be tough - I just meet someone special from an on-line site - it all comes down to know what you want I think.
Reply:You are spot-on!


Agree 100%


Real, and workable relationships happen in the REAL WORLD.
Reply:Absolutely true, the net is riddled with freaks, losers, and jack asses.
Reply:Exactly-use Your better judgement.Okay it`s not the same as in real life granted...and You get the usual predators,like 'real' life,but I`ll give You a pro for it ok:I`m not attracted (in real life) to a clown.whereas on line dating You could find other facets of them and get to know them,ok others in general too,people open up more when they aren`t faced with a person in front of them ,you`d prob. find You could get to know someone better(i.e their vulnerabilities),and people lie in real life too.
Reply:It sure is. Some sickos out there... yeah. You should try that 3 minute date thing where you meet actual people face to face. That looks like fun, yeah?
Reply:Seems to work for some
Reply:I do agree that there are some very sick people out there and normally I would warn anyone against online dating, but I met my current partner through an online dating site and we have been together for nearly 2 years now and couldnt be happier. But I should like to add I consider myself extremely lucky to have found a good one, I would normally say be extremely careful.
Reply:At times, it's not wise to criticize about something you do not have first hand experience with. Yes, it's possible to find some idiot sending you the wrong profile, but again, it can be successful for who online dating was meant for. Have you ever lied to your girl who trust you sooo much? We deceive people we know every day.
Reply:got that right i lost so much money on those and only had three dates all bad
Reply:i agree completely
Reply:I totally agree with you. All of my experiences with dating sights have been bad. I have yet to even come close to finding anyone normal, not that anyone is normal......most of the people I have run across on on line dating sights or only there for one thing. A one night stand, or a friend with benefits. It is a place for people to prey on other people.
Reply:It depends. I have had rotten luck with online dating, but I know someone who got married a few months back to someone he met online. I think it all depends on circumstance %26amp; the personalities of the people involved, like all dating does.
Reply:the world is full of freaks. some good some bad. the internet is just an easy place to find a lot of them. the statistics say 1/3 of ppl meet on line these days. i've not found mr right (only mr right now) so i can't say they work for everyone but i do know a few friends who have found they're soul mates. it is possible, when it's our time we'll find it
Reply:I think that regardless of where you search for a date there are just people out their that are jerks. I know of alot of people that have found their match online. People just as easily lie to you in person as they can do online. I wish your sister luck.
Reply:I dont think so. I think in every sitution your going to have your good and bad dates. I have meet to guys off yahoo and it wasnt so bad but I wouldnt date them. but that doesnt make it the most horrabile thing in the world. and everyone asumes everyone on dateing sities are killers and rapsit come on makes me sick.
Reply:I met my boyfriend online actually we met on Myspace, and figured out that we both lived in the same city... I think that it is a good idea if the person dating lives in the same city/area as you, otherwise it is very difficult.





We then met at a mall a month after we met on MySpace, and have been dating now for 7 months... and we're still going strong.
Reply:Use g2bay Personals. People pay you to get in touch with you. No spam!
Reply:If the net is so riddled with these wierdoes thenyou will only have to weed through them in real life too.


The net is just the start, follow the common sense (doesn't exist anymore, google the meaning) and you can then date. It follows from there if you are compatible.


How do you know the guy in the pub with the chat up lines isn't a wierdo also?


IS society really becoming so ignorant that people cant use a tool to assist them to make something rather than expect it made for them without any effort. No wonder so many boring wierdoes are out there. They don't go and experience life.
Reply:My thoughts on this are mixed.I do agree that there are sickos and pervs out there.But then again,there are some nice and sweet people too.I met my current b/f on a dating website and he is wonderful.You can read a profile of the person but it doensn't tell you everything.That is why you set up a date to meet that person.If they turn out to be weird,just leave.Sometimes people have to turn to a dating website because they might be having problems doing it the right way or maybe they're shy.For online dating,you have to be careful and put your guard up.Also to use extreme caution as well.
Reply:its not useless...
Reply:My thoughts are that you can't color the whole picture with one crayon. I found a great man online. We are in a very loving relationship and plan to get married. If you are just out looking for fun then you will of course get others who just wanna have fun and use the other person for what they can get. If you're looking for a lasting relationship then you have to find people with the same goal. They are less likely to be idiots.
Reply:my parents met on the internet so no its not useless people do find true love and now they are happily married.
Reply:i met my husband off the yahoo chat site so it is not all useless. it just all depends on what you are looking for
Reply:yep load of nutters on they sites, id stay away from them
Reply:i have known people who have gotten lucky and found the right person you get to know them before you meet so you are not just going on looks alone
Reply:yeah no 1 should b alowed to date online cuz its wrong
Reply:And you are a stud? Is this true?
Reply:I AGREE WITH YOU 100%!!!
Reply:I have to disagree. Ive met a lovely man and he treats me with more respect then my ex husband ever did. Its worth the gamble i reckon!

root canal