Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Online dating...what do you do when..?

Okay so this girl messaged me and she was really nice and we had a few really good chats, and then I saw a picture and I am *REALLY* not attracted to her. I'm sorry. I can pretend I am but...actually no, I really can't. Nothing could ever happen between us. What do you do after a nice chat when you're no longer interested?? This is one of the messiest parts about online dating!! You don't get to see the person first sometimes!

Online dating...what do you do when..?
I think I would tell her that I wasn't being exclusive within the online dating community, and would like to continue looking for the "perfect" person. Or, that I had just started dating someone else from the site (or another one). She can't think she was the only one on the dating site worthy of checking out more closely.





Good luck, that is pretty messy, but dating sites are there to help you find just what you're looking for. If you were going to settle, you probably could have picked out a gas station attendant a long time ago ;)
Reply:Just let her know the truth. Got really good chats doesn't mean you guys will be in love. Tell her you just need friendship relationship. But we don't know what did you told to her. Did you say you're into her? If so you'll hurt her a little bit. But I don't think she'll get mad for that. Next time ask for picture first. lol





P.S. That's why I don't do online dating. I don't trust the pic they post on their profile. Cuz I'm always use my friend pic (with permission)
Reply:Ya thats why I'm reluctant to send out my picture. I would say just tell her. Say, I'm very interested in you, but I'm just not attracted to you. It's a personal preference type thing, don't be offended.
Reply:Just be friends? Just because you talked to her that doesn't mean you're obliged to have sex with her but you equally you shouldn't cut off all ties just because she's not your type physically.
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Be honest with her and tell her that you just are not interested in her and let it go than move on.





Blockdelete them on your IM listing on the computer or cell phone.
Reply:yea just say: im going on vacation across the world and never talk to her again because you dont wanna say your an ugly peice of crap and hurt her feelings.
Reply:it happened to me once.i told this guy that we could only be friends because i wasnt ready for a relationship,he said fine.


weeks later i stopped taking his calls
Reply:Stop returning her messages? D:
Reply:Just tell her you'd rather stay friends.

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