Online dating worrys!?

I have been a part of this dating site for over two years and just when I didn't care about checking who viewed my profile someone found intrest in me and we have been chatting on the phone and online everyday for almost a month... We seemed to get along right away and even now really, but the one time we were going to meet he kept changing the times and then I ended up calling it off when he wanted me to go all the way back home with him at 10:00 a clock at night and we are almost a hour distances. The thing is I'm finding the more I talk to him the more I'm worride about who I'm getting involved with, but we talk so much like we have already met before so I can't decided if I should give him a second chance. I keep telling myself to break off all the conversations and make my first date with someone I actually know better, but then I kinda want to give him a chance... Except I'm a virgin and he is already talking about us sexually so I'm just a little questionable? What do ya think

Online dating worrys!?
i have had internet relationships before. if u find the right type of guy your looking for, it's worth it.


one thing i would definatly advise... from my experiences, if the guy is making all these sexual comments.. then he's thinkin one thing. if the guy doesnt mention it, and cares more about you, and your feelings.. it's closer to the real deal that your lookin for. iknow when i talk to guys online or even on the phone, if we havent met, and they make anytype of sexual comments i usually push him aside. i want a guy who cares about my feelings more than my body.


just my opinon though i hope it helps!


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Reply:follow your instincts. they will never let you down. if your thinking about ending contact with him do so. - Before you get hurt.
Reply:Dump him. No guy should be asking you to come home with him on the first date. Listen to your gut - if you are more unsure about him the more you talk with him, then listen to your instincts and drop him. You don't "owe" him anything just because you've been chatting online for awhile.





This is why the dating needs to take place in person, and the online communication should be brief - people are very different in real life than they are online.





Listen to your instincts. Dump him.
Reply:If you're feeling uncomfortable, go with your gut. If he's already talking about sex with you then it sounds as if you have good reason to feel that way.


If you still REALLY want to give this guy a chance maybe arrange a group thing, where you both bring along friends in a day time activity.


Good luck, and be careful!!
Reply:If you are uncomfortable just talking to him then i would listen to your gut feeling. Don't get involved
Reply:internet relationships freak me out, honestly. i mean, you honestly dont know what you're getting into





plus, if the guy is already talking about you two sexually without even meeting first, that's even more creepy. you never know what he REALLY is.





so i think you're better off going out on your own meeting someone.