Girls how do you find Online dating sites, Ive had negative experiences?

What has your experience been using online dating sites. I have found it difficult to meet genuine people, the men on there are either desperate for sex (will pretend as if they want a relationship to use you for sex), posers/egotistical or have absolutely no social skills. Do you think the internet attracts a certain types.





For some reason they seem to think they can treat you like rubbish, and hurt your feelings just because they met you online, as if you are indispensable. In reality some of these guys would never have stood a chance with me in a club or in the street, I never would have given them the time of day.





I know you get good and bad people wherever you go, but for some reason alot seem to be online. Maybe its because they feel they can mask their true personality online and pretend to be someone else.





Thank god Ive never dated them or had sex with any, I think they get impatient, the desperation makes their true colours show.

Girls how do you find Online dating sites, Ive had negative experiences?
yes i had exactly the same experience as you a couple of years ago, made me into a nervous wreck as i didnt know who to trust and i ended up deleting all my accounts, worst ones for this are Match.com, even though they look all sweet and innocent and genuine relationship site they spawn lots of the types u mention in your question..Friends dating reunited as well, i find as they look like professional un seedy sites, you find that they are less in your face but all those nasty types are just hiding behind a false profile trying to groom girls who are actually serious about a long term relationship.


So i actually went off date sites altogether and just became well and truly single, went out to find myself, set up a social networking site instead and this way attracted loads of people like myself who genuininly wanted to get to know me be it on friends basis or just a hobby buddy or whatever and that way you get to build up the relationship with someone slowly and gradually something may transpire. clicking with a like minded person is the best thing ever. You know when you can a bad un when they havent even got mind lol


Good luck!
Reply:I was glad to answer you question Linda as its such a sensitive subject to me, i have a lot to say about date sites, they should be regulated a lot better. Thanks for the rating! Report It

Reply:My current boyfriend and I live together, and are coming up on our 15-month anniversary.


We chatted hours and hours for a couple of weeks before we even met each other, spending up to six hours each night with each other on the computer.


We're happy together and love each other. I'm 22, he's 27. :)


We met on OKCupid.com, I find it to be the best site out there, and it's free! Be sure and constantly fill out the questions to determine matches, though, at least a few a day.
Reply:Linda, there are good and bad in all people.


I have met many good frieinds on the internet and not all " for Sex " You have to keep trying, as you say its no different than meeting someone in the bar is it ?


There are some good ones of us out there. X X


Iain.
Reply:i don't think so that online dating experience can't be good coz i found my hubby on http://www.shaadi-direct.com/angola/matr... and now we are enjoying our happy life from last 1 year !!!!
Reply:hey baby....trust on me. lets date on net only.
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Reply:I have meet two guys from on-line. One of these guys are now my best friend and we have known each other for FIVE years. The other guy I meet was totally disgusting, dirty nails, green teeth so foul. I didn't want to see him anymore.





My friend on the other hand meet two guys online. The first guy she meet only seemed interested in sleeping with her. While the guy she is currently with is now her boyfriend and they are going to move in with each other by the end of the year.





My sex buddy (well friend who has benefits) meet a disgusting vile 44 year old who lived interstate. Who had five kids and was drug riddled. But now he doesn't want anyone.





So there is some good and some bad experiences.
Reply:I think on-line dating can be very dangerous because the Internet is blind you cant see the people you talk with .


Lots of people are not real at all and just make fun at other people , I tried it once but I got very scared to meet this boy it was all happening to fast , he want me to travel over 350km to see him in Poland , Im only 17 , when I say to him to come to Frankfurt he say no he cant ,I was so scared I could not sleep .


The next day I broke off the contact .


All I can say is Pleases be very careful .......grüß Katie